“I believe that as long as you build yourself a close circle of allies, there is every opportunity to succeed”.
Rupa’s favourite quote fits her well, as her pioneering spirit has helped her not only advance—but thrive—in the male-dominated world of engineering.
After completing her degree in Civil Engineering, she faced various challenges during her job search in the engineering domain as there no construction company was ready to recruit a female engineer. But despite the criticism and challenges she never gives up and her own occasional self-doubt, she continued on to an entry-level field engineering job as Design Engineer at STUP Consultants Pvt. Ltd. Although she initially worried that her gender would keep her from being taken seriously, she forged strong, successful relationships and built trust with her clients.
Since then, she’s followed opportunities from STUP to Namma Metro, Bengaluru, and now assumes more responsibility, forging professional connections, and creating a new life for herself each time. Now as a Deputy Chief Engineer at Bangalore Metro Rail Project, she uses her technical and project management skills to help build the underground metro structures that literally transform the urban rail infrastructure.
Recently, we interacted with Ms. Rupa Paramanik via email and discussed various points that cover the beautiful and very inspirational journey of her life. Read on for more about her adventure & dedication towards learning new things and maybe get inspired to plan your own.
I graduated from NIT Durgapur with specialization in Civil Engineering in 2004. I completed more than 18 years of journey in my professional career since then. I led large structural engineering projects at MNCs and Indian conglomerates. I participated in prestigious metro projects as a Detailed Design Consultant (DDC)/General Consultant (GC) from review to approval of drawings for Bangalore, Pune, Mumbai, Delhi, Jaipur and Ahmedabad.
To be honest, when I got an opportunity in Civil Engineering, I was not sure whether I will be able to grasp it. But slowly I started believing that God has a big plan and started loving the subject and started realising it.
As a female Civil Engineer, it was quite challenging in 2003-04 when 100% placement was not obvious. I didn’t get any right opportunities during campus placement and faced various challenges during job searching as most of the construction companies rejected me because they were not ready to recruit a female engineer. I was disturbed but didn’t give up, I knew I need to change the situation and will have to prove that a woman is also equally capable in the structural and construction industry. I started exploring through the right channels and got the start after 3 months of completing of degree. And since then, I have been working hard and trying to give my best as per my capability.
I believe that we need to use our time wisely – “The key is not spending time, but investing it” Stephen R Covey.
Time management is nothing but common sense. If we consider work as part of our life, then we will enjoy the work. Naturally, we will not feel stressed.
For best time management, I generally follow a few basic measures/principles such as:
Right, if people imagine engineers sitting in their offices and making only calculations all day – is the biggest misconception - is not correct for civil engineers. We must have extensive knowledge about the subject and its practical implementation as per reality.
We must develop a relentless attitude and not allow fear to stop us, need to develop a seeking spirit to learn from practical aspects as well, based on our ability. Sometimes we may not correlate or enjoy but we need to persevere, to visit the site, visiting the site executions give vast clarity about the subject and the project broadly.
I feel lucky to be entering the profession of engineering; it’s the best engineering has ever been for women.
I believe that as long as you build yourself a close circle of allies, there is every opportunity to succeed.
As a woman in engineering, it is advantageous to see yourself playing an important role in the workplace and society.
As for gender discrimination concerns, I never feel that differentiation. I simply tried to give my best and enjoy the work I am responsible for. Honestly, I have received support from my family, friends, teachers, colleagues, and seniors who lifted up.
It is not fair to take advantage of being a woman engineer. Based on dedication, perseverance and sincerity, one can make a difference and make the corporate world a better place for women.
I think it is time to change the mentality about what a woman engineer can do, you must follow your dreams and excel in whatever work you have been given. I would say if you believe in your ability, if we enjoy the present journey, give our best with complete sincerity. Nothing is impossible. Always try to be in the present not to think about the consequence or outcomes or think about the past/future which I don’t have any control over.
Not to fear or not to think too much about success, if you think about outcome or success, automatically we will be fearful. But if we are excited about the process and work with passion. Believe me, you will enjoy the journey, which will give you immense joy and a sense of satisfaction. Also, you should not think only about your own benefit, to think about personal growth aligned with organisation’s growth. You know, to think about how I am going to help organisation to grow along with my personal growth.
To work with passion and of course, we must have practical experience in the subject for which we are responsible. Broadly we learn about theoretical knowledge during engineering graduation but in reality, we need to learn many new things as per actual site conditions and practical implementation based on technical skills which give massive clarity about the subject. It gives immense joy and fulfilment when we see the structures which we theoretically analysed/ designed are successfully implemented/executed and functional for many years.
Yes, it is true, as I mentioned earlier that I worked in Delhi Metro (Phase 2 & 3) and Jaipur Metro. I was posted there for 10 years. I was in Mumbai and worked for Mumbai Metro Rail Corporation (MMRC), I was posted in Pune and was responsible to review design/drawings as GC. Now I am in Bangalore. To be very honest, I never thought from that point of view about changing the cities or strategizing myself. I simply follow the path dedicatedly to whatever came on my way. You know, I continued to connect the dots/ human hearts in terms of metro connectivity or road connectivity, providing almost door-to-door connectivity to make people’s life easy and comfortable. With complete sincerity, I worked hard and I got a huge opportunity to work/interact with different people from different backgrounds and cultures. Thoroughly enjoyed different cultures, journeys and create many beautiful human connections at different locations (India or Abroad like Mongolia) along with professional connections in these years. And I didn’t plan anything, it just happened very naturally.
There are three aspects that drive me these days:
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